I remember very well the first time I met Tim Reed. I was March 17, 2009. St. Patrick's Day. It was also the night of the Eagles concert. Austin and I weren't even dating at this point in time as Austin was still too scared to maintain more than 5 consecutive minutes of conversation with me. I had just come from a haircut next door and figured I'd swing into the Tav to grab a free soda before heading home.
Unfortunately, my timing didn't work out for quick beverage swipe. In true Boone Tavern fashion, they had not anticipated the Eagles' concert combined with St. Pat's day brining in A TON more business than usual and only 3 servers were scheduled. Which suddenly meant that my quick stop turned into my clocking in and running food to waiting tables with wet hair, ripped jeans, and flip flops.
As I walked out onto the patio, I noticed a large, rowdy table of patrons right in front of the server station. I did a double take when, suddenly I was looking at an older version of Austin Reed. I told my friend Dani, who was serving that night, "I think that guy is my friend, Austin's dad. You should ask him if his last name is Reed." And so she did. She returned a few minutes later with the message that I was supposed to go say hi.
Our ensuing conversation went a little bit like this:
Hey...so, you're Austin's dad?
Yeah...how do you know Austin?
We work together at Rock Bridge.
(looking a little confused) You work at Rock Bridge? With Austin?
Yep.
What do you do?
I'm a Guidance Counselor.
Oh. That's nice.....So...you're there everyday? All day? And you work with Austin?
(Laughing) Um, yep. I'm there everyday...except Saturday and Sunday.
Then the topic changes to the Eagles concert when Tim (or someone at his table mentions they are going).
Oh yeah, Austin told me today that he's going to the concert too. Will you all sit together?
(Tim looking doubtful). No, Austin's not going.
Yeah he is.
My son, Austin?
Uh, yeah. He's going with the golf coach.
Doug Daniels?
Yeah. I think so?
Tim doesn't believe me so he calls Austin up.
I'm at Boone Tavern with one of your friends.... (pause and then he turns to me, "What was your name again?") ...Rachel. She said you're going to the Eagles concert?......
Austin confirms that I am indeed correct and he's heading to the concert and Tim just says,
Well, hell...I can't even keep track of my own kids.
To which someone at the table offers him another frosty beverage and the table cracks up with laughter.
Later. A long time later. After Austin and I were dating, I told him this story. And I added, "You know before we were dating, one thing I remember thinking was 'Austin's dad is good looking for an old man (sorry about the "old man" comment Tim!) and if Austin looks like him when he's older, I'd be okay with that'. Wait. Is that creepy that I said your dad is good looking? Sorry".
And here we are. 2 years later. Austin and I are married and Tim, that funny guy I met at Boone Tavern on St. Pat's Day, is my father in law. Didn't see that one coming, but I'm sure glad that it worked out this way :)
And I'm sharing this story b/c Tim Reed says he is the luckiest man in the world and that he doesn't need anything for his birthday tomorrow.
In fact his quote was: "Tim Reed is the most blessed, luckiest man on this planet. ... I simply don't need anything. .. If you must do something, just give me a real cheap card, and let me know your summer plans and how Lisa and I can fit into those plans a little."
And while it's not a card with summer plans, the point of this whole entry, is that we too are so blessed. Because we have Tim in our lives. And having Tim in your life means that there's never a dull moment ;)
I specifically am blessed because Tim raised his oldest son to be a kind, thoughtful, and loving husband...who, like his father, has a hilarious sense of humor and knows how to have a good time :) (and who will grow up to be a pretty good looking old man :))
So, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIM REED! I hope you have a WONDERFUL day full of birdies, beer, and Booches. :)
Much love,
Your very blessed daughter-in-law :)

Also, for your B-day, I've made you a cookie cake...which out grew it's pan in the oven. But I promise, by the time I deliver it, it will be both beautiful and delicious :)

Okay...so maybe "beautiful" is a relative term. I probably should have double checked the amount of icing I had before I started with the beautification process ;) And "delicious" may be relative also as I am pretty sure that the cookie is stuck to that baking stone despite the generous amount of Pam I sprayed on it before baking :) Whoops. Well....as they say. It's the thought that counts ;) HAPPY BDAY!